Tuesday 2 October 2018

It’s complicated!

Why do some people find it so hard to say I love you? Or I’m sorry?

Is it lack of experience I wonder. Something that was not present to be observed and learned from in their formative years?

Is it a form of self protection because it makes them feel not in control, feelings they don’t want to have to face or deal with because it makes them feel vulnerable?

Is it a fear of not being loved back, even when it is so obvious that they are, but it’s so overwhelming that they just daren't believe it, so they unconsciously sabotage it.....

or that by admitting that they may actually be in the wrong or they fucked up, they may have to examine themselves and their behaviour and make a choice to stick or twist?

Or maybe, they just aren’t .....

Human beings are complicated